Constantly Feed the Mental Pictures of Who You Know You Really Are
See yourself living the kind of life you know want to live. Then see yourself with the kind of relationships you want, or the kind of health you want, and the kind of car you want to drive, and the kind of home you have been dreaming of for so long.
Remember to visualize all of those points just before you fall asleep at night. Then do the same as the first thing you do when you get up in the morning, then feed yourself mental pictures one more time. Do it again late morning, just before lunch and in the evening. Then repeat it all again.
Do this throughout the day when your subconscious mind is most receptive to new programming, last thing at night and again when you wake up. Then do it over and over again.